ronhi85 Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 As a freelancer, I often have bad days. Whenever that happens, I remind myself that at least I don’t have to deal with a mean supervisor. And then I watch Big Bang Theory. That always lifts my spirits.How about you? What’s your coping strategy? 14 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coerdelion Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 I have my favourite food and fashion blogs … occasionally go out for a walk or a coffee with a friend.Although Glasgow is on lock down again … those young folks will insist on meeting their friends … 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cubittaudio Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 I have my favourite food and fashion blogs … occasionally go out for a walk or a coffee with a friend.Although Glasgow is on lock down again … those young folks will insist on meeting their friends …Although Glasgow is on lock down againYou live in Glasgow? One of my favourite cities. We were up there for a few days last year. It hammered it down with rain, but we still had a great time. We’ve done a few city breaks over the last few years, and the people in Glasgow were by far the friendliest we encountered. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vibronx Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 As I get older, I must admit that bad days are usually the result of more serious things (and things out of my control) than they were when I was younger, so sometimes it can be difficult to know what to do.But, I usually just try to stay busy. Otherwise, lifting weights usually also lifts your mood, so that is what I do. 🙂 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melissaharlowvo Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 As a freelancer, I often have bad days. Whenever that happens, I remind myself that at least I don’t have to deal with a mean supervisor. And then I watch Big Bang Theory. That always lifts my spirits.How about you? What’s your coping strategy?r. And then I watch Big Bang Theory. That always lifts my spirits.That is a regular show in our house too!!! 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coerdelion Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 Although Glasgow is on lock down againYou live in Glasgow? One of my favourite cities. We were up there for a few days last year. It hammered it down with rain, but we still had a great time. We’ve done a few city breaks over the last few years, and the people in Glasgow were by far the friendliest we encountered.It hammered it down with rainLol! It often does. We had very good weather first couple of weeks in August - everyone was squinting at the sky, wondering what that light was … 😉 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cubittaudio Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 As a freelancer, I often have bad days. Whenever that happens, I remind myself that at least I don’t have to deal with a mean supervisor. And then I watch Big Bang Theory. That always lifts my spirits.How about you? What’s your coping strategy?How about you? What’s your coping strategy?I produce music, as a side-hustle but also because I love doing it. Unless I’m too tired, that’s a good option for me. I love doing something creative with zero boundaries.Playing the PlayStation is a bit of a guilty pleasure too. I don’t do online stuff (I can’t be doing with 14-year olds destroying me at online games) but tend to go for story-driven stuff like The Last Of Us etc… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melissaharlowvo Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 I have my favourite food and fashion blogs … occasionally go out for a walk or a coffee with a friend.Although Glasgow is on lock down again … those young folks will insist on meeting their friends …I am in the US and for the first time in my life ever day is a circus and not in a good way.Getting out in nature is the best medicine for (for me) a lockdown and a bad day. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heyfellow1 Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 Chill at home and maybe go out with friends. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vibronx Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 How about you? What’s your coping strategy?I produce music, as a side-hustle but also because I love doing it. Unless I’m too tired, that’s a good option for me. I love doing something creative with zero boundaries.Playing the PlayStation is a bit of a guilty pleasure too. I don’t do online stuff (I can’t be doing with 14-year olds destroying me at online games) but tend to go for story-driven stuff like The Last Of Us etc…Playing the PlayStation is a bit of a guilty pleasure too. I don’t do online stuff (I can’t be doing with 14-year olds destroying me at online games) but tend to go for story-driven stuff like The Last Of Us etc…Oh, yeah, tell me about those 14-year olds. As gaming has become more popular, they just keep getting better and better. And they can be dang mean, too. I used to be a very big (and quite infamous) troll in Denmark when I was younger, but even I think that they are becoming a tad too ‘toxic’ for lack of a better word. I don’t really want to use my days listening to someone screeching at me.I will stick to my Bioware games. It is pretty much all I play anymore. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cubittaudio Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 As a freelancer, I often have bad days. Whenever that happens, I remind myself that at least I don’t have to deal with a mean supervisor. And then I watch Big Bang Theory. That always lifts my spirits.How about you? What’s your coping strategy?Whenever that happens, I remind myself that at least I don’t have to deal with a mean supervisor.This is an interesting point… I’m lucky, I’ve never had a mean boss, but I totally get how draining it must be to those who do.I remind myself of the freedom I have as a freelancer, in terms of my hours and how I choose to use my time. The idea of being told “you must be at your desk by 9am” seems so alien to me now, I can’t see it as being anything other than silly. My bad days tend to be when I’m beating myself up for not having ‘done’ enough that month (not enough orders, not enough money etc).I find that taking a moment to really appreciate the massive benefit of being a freelancer, in terms of being able to decide how and when I work, really does help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronhi85 Posted September 2, 2020 Author Share Posted September 2, 2020 Whenever that happens, I remind myself that at least I don’t have to deal with a mean supervisor.This is an interesting point… I’m lucky, I’ve never had a mean boss, but I totally get how draining it must be to those who do.I remind myself of the freedom I have as a freelancer, in terms of my hours and how I choose to use my time. The idea of being told “you must be at your desk by 9am” seems so alien to me now, I can’t see it as being anything other than silly. My bad days tend to be when I’m beating myself up for not having ‘done’ enough that month (not enough orders, not enough money etc).I find that taking a moment to really appreciate the massive benefit of being a freelancer, in terms of being able to decide how and when I work, really does help.I remind myself of the freedom I have as a freelancer,I was up all night yesterday working because I want to free up some time early next week. I love the flexibility of freelancing. I can plan my hours as I please. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vickiespencer Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 My old house is nearing 100 years old and has a cozy from porch. I like to relax there, sip hot coffee and read or listen to a good book. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeus777 Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 If it’s cold, have hot chocolate.If it’s hot, a nice glass of crisp white wine. And cheese.Enjoy a nice conversation with a good friend while having your munchies and drinks.If your friend is too busy and not available, stay at home and watch a funny TV show.Big Bang is a good one. I also like Home Improvement. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alphagev Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 It depends on how bad was the day. Usually breathing exercises and meditation would do the job. But I also enjoy hand-drawing geometric figures or play video games with an immersive atmosphere and soundtrack (like “The Banner Saga”).photo_2020-09-02_18-50-091280×853 211 KBLockdown’s result 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creativity18 Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 Wow… Its a great one 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miiila Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 Trees are the best to lift my spirits. If there’s enough time, a forest, if not, the close park will do. And squirrel watching, or squirrels observing me observing them, makes me always smile, if I want to or not.Eichhörnchen1411×1759 892 KB 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vickiespencer Posted September 2, 2020 Share Posted September 2, 2020 Trees are the best to lift my spirits. If there’s enough time, a forest, if not, the close park will do. And squirrel watching, or squirrels observing me observing them, makes me always smile, if I want to or not.Eichhörnchen1411×1759 892 KBsquirrel watchingI can watch squirrels from my front porch. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xetael Posted September 3, 2020 Share Posted September 3, 2020 As a freelancer, I often have bad days. Whenever that happens, I remind myself that at least I don’t have to deal with a mean supervisor. And then I watch Big Bang Theory. That always lifts my spirits.How about you? What’s your coping strategy?ice cream…lots and lots of icecream 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mohaiminsonchay Posted September 3, 2020 Share Posted September 3, 2020 I am a bird lover and I have birds in my house. I just take care of them and talk and play with them. 🙂 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattboa Posted September 3, 2020 Share Posted September 3, 2020 Bad day? Time to obsessively relisten to the same track over and over again! 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilychinadancer Posted October 5, 2020 Share Posted October 5, 2020 If I felt bad I will watch some interesting movies , but I’m not often get such feelings , because I have to spend time to learn something new , so I have no too much time to " feel bad " 😀 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divya_savan Posted October 5, 2020 Share Posted October 5, 2020 If i had a bad day,i just sit alone and speak to myself that, this is life so we have to face bad days and good days too.everything happens for a reason so we have to face it all.just smile and go on. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maheennadeem814 Posted January 27, 2023 Share Posted January 27, 2023 (edited) Hello everyone! Today was not a good day for me. I woke up feeling low and worried about my career choices. The condition was getting worse than ever, therefore the company I worked for lately laid off the staff. As of right now, I just rely on the Fiverr platform, which is unpredictable. I've been second-guessing my decisions and feeling unsure of myself. I'm not sure if I'm making the right choices and it's causing me a lot of stress and anxiety. I just can't shake the feeling that I'm not good enough or that I'm not on the right path. How do you guys cope when feeling low? Edited January 27, 2023 by maheennadeem814 11 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imagination7413 Posted January 27, 2023 Share Posted January 27, 2023 Imposter syndrome. Most people deal with it at one point or another, especially if there isn't anyone in their lives that is both truthful and encouraging. Doubt can be difficult to overcome. Give me a bit and I'll see if I can find some resources. 13 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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