@benedictrm already gave a great response. In short: we are trying to teach them to stop being so entitled and to perhaps be able to solve their own problems next time. Also, I think most regular users here reflect on their actions all the time. I do, anyway. However, I, and I suspect many others, have come to the realization that the best way to help is to steer users toward helping themselves rather than spoon-feeding them. It may not help them in the short run, but in the long run, it will be more effective for them once they get a chance to reflect on what they have been told. You probably disagree with this, and that is completely fine. However, what I would then invite you to do is to become an active part of this community and help new users by posting links or answering questions, as you mentioned before. You can practice what you preach instead of simply “wasting your time” by complaining about other people complaining. You still overread my point though, you could’ve just quoted my whole post and not only one sentence 😀 I agree that spoon-feeding is not beneficial either, because the people trying to help give alot with little return. Perhaps I just disagree with the way you are trying to steer those users into a self learning and self motivated (and self researching lol) personalities. It could be more benefical if you simply a drop a link to the FAQ when someone asks the same question for the 10000th time, thats what FAQs are there for after all. On discord servers that I am active on which have a very healthy teaching environment, a bot automatically detects FAQ (for example “how to learn C#”) the bots automatically posts a link to helpful resources + a hint on how to ask specific questions. Thanks for inviting me being an active part of this community, but I do not like the common sense of the active contributors. You said yourself that I am wasting my time, even though all I did was trying to constructively critize. If the most active contributors react in such a way, without even reading my content, then it is a red flag for any community that is trying to be helpful and self-improving.